I had the opportunity to attend a talk by Margaret Dawson at the Women in Business Expo. Her set was about empowering women which I found bloody inspirational. And wanted to share some key points from what she had to say.  

Dawson started off with asking the audience if we knew our purpose? Knowing who you are and your purpose is a question that most people probably can’t answer and by the lack of hands shooting up in the air, answered my theory. I learnt that from around the age of 8 is when we start processing other people’s input, and their input can shape who we think we are.

Even at the age of 31, I still have ‘naysayers’ add comments to my actions such as: ‘don’t change your job, you will look unreliable’, ‘Can you actually do that?’ (THAT being anything from starting a business, running a events, writing a blog) and ‘you will never make the money you want, it isn’t realistic.’ From a girl to woman, input like this has always been there.

How are those comments helpful? How is that empowering me? What are you getting out of this and do have something constructive to add at that end of negative sentence?

Society Define who we are allowed to be.

Listening to this input, too much will only result in hiding who we are. This is evident in the business world, especially when it comes to a job application. It is common knowledge that Women will not apply for a job unless she 100% qualified, experienced and more. Where men, will apply for a job even if he only has 60% of job spec skills.

You can read more about this here: https://business.linkedin.com/talent-solutions/blog/diversity/2019/how-women-find-jobs-gender-report

Dawson referred to our being as a pure light, which is humble and beautiful. Our light can be dulled when we have negativity and poor input when we are trying to shape our paths.

[A note to add to the readers: Before we input into someone else’s being, perhaps we should make sure the words we are saying are of some use and empowering not unhelpful and demoralising]

Dawson talked around a bullying in the workplace how it can come from women towards other women. She referred to a point where women start to progress up the ladder then there is almost like a high-heel pointing down keeping other women a safe distance from their ivory towers.

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It is not always in business that you have this odd competitive nature of not supporting women. I have experienced women in my life who either friends or people I have met that have lacked empathy, encouragement and actually been a bully.

To conclude, Dawson gave 8 points on how we can women can empower women:

  1. Intentional support other women
  2. Hire more women in your organsiation
  3. Mentor, coach, train – no matter the age
  4. Encourage your daughters (and sons) to take that risk
  5. Level the playing field, don’t put up blockers.
  6. Be nice to that different girl
  7. Be aware of the input you give
  8. Celebrate everyones unique light and self.

To round this up 10, The Wonder Blog would like to add 2 more:

  1. Don’t be afraid to challenge. Whether the status quo or someone on their behaviour.
  2. Encourage others to follow their dreams, support, give constructive advice and if you can help in any way – whether sharing their business page or writing an article for their own blog small acts of kindness can go a long way…

… And women who do not empower other women, rarely make it!

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